2012

i don't really do resolutions.  i am way too messed up.  i end up trying to become a different person in every area of my life at once by verbally abusing myself. 

i had one new year's resolution that worked, i think it was 2010, and that was to stop using paper towels in the kitchen.  1 simple thing, not a major part of my identity, and voila!  a fun resolution to keep!

my only resolution for 2012 is going to be to shave my legs more often (how often, i haven't decided but ANYTHING would be an improvement over the current state of things (man legs)).

ON THE OTHER HAND.  i may hate resolutions, but i LOVE reflecting.  last year i used these fun resources to reflect on the past year and the coming year (also v. fun date night questions):

http://simplemom.net/new-years-eve-questions/
http://simplemom.net/20-questions-for-a-new-year/

http://lobotomeblog.blogspot.com/2011/01/new-years-resolutions.html